who made the first A move???

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Registered: 11-26-2007
who made the first A move???
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Sat, 12-06-2008 - 10:31pm

When AP and I became physical, we were under influence of alcohol. I could not really remember how it happened, well i remembered everything except for who kissed who first. When I asked him today, he said it was me, he did not realize i did not remember. I found it a bit "disturbing", our relationship before was very professional and we were very good colleagues. He said it did not matter who made the first move and it was mutual and etc. But i really do not like the idea that I kissed him.


Does anyone care to share the stories who made the first move?

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Registered: 01-27-2008
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 4:48am

Ap and I are both in the same line of work although we dont work together. At first we got talking about work and the different approaches we both use. He would often ask my advice and vice versa. Eventually we got chatting on-line and then that progressed to texting. This then went to meeting up for a coffee, after coffee we walked and talked, strong attraction between us. Before we went our separate ways he politely asked if i would kiss him lol, I refused so he just grabbed and kissed me. From then on its just been a amazing ride.


AP said that he was captivated with my outlook on life from day one, and just had a strong urge to want to get to know me better, and be part of my life. He is so sweet and we are both happy to have found each other.


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Registered: 11-13-2008
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 6:47am
my AP did.we were chatting on our way to our workplace parking lot.he was depressed about the tensions at home with W.when we reached our cars,he took out a bottle and gulped it down before i could stop him.i couldnt see his sorry state and wanted to kiss him bad.he continued pouring his heart out and i grabbed him and kissed ! he pulled me into the car and we did it.i was in skirt ,that got torn too as he was uncontrolable and i was wanting him bad anyway,so didnt stop him.
we went to my place and had our first night with him all drunk and i took some as well before jumping into the bed.all we remember is that it was amazing! thats what i miss the most when he is not spending the night with me.thats the price of being with a MM.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2007
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 7:44am
i am 23, ap is 36, h is 25....may be we should start a separate poll on age, who made the first move and all that....
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2008
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 2:56pm

hey...he asked me out to lunch...i went...as far as kissing..he did...he tried before and i ran from him to my car..lol...


emotionally...he did


sexually...i did...


he's the one that remembered our anniversary time...i got a sweetie for my AP..i love him to pieces...he's a honey bun..seriously...

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-23-2008
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 5:46pm
AP & I had been talking & flirting for a couple of weeks when he came very close to kissing me but walked off and then called my cell phone to tell me he wanted to kiss me but was afraid someone would see us - told him don't worry about it and next time he did (so I guess sort of both
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 10:42pm
I'm 35
My AP made a first move, he took my hand, and I could not take it back.
The rest is history.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2006
Thu, 01-01-2009 - 3:04am
AP made the first move and I was surprised. We had spoken online for years before actually meeting. we had brunch and we were sitting somewhere together, I look up and he kissed me...it came out of nowhere and I was surprised but when the shock wore off I noticed it was amazing!
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2008
Thu, 01-01-2009 - 8:11pm

Let's see, I made the first move as far as contacting him just to chat.

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Registered: 09-05-2004
Fri, 01-02-2009 - 7:07pm

Neighter one of us. So far we've just been talking about doing it. Although he's very excited in the anticipation of it al, I'm absolutely

 

 

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