Who will have NC for the weekend?

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Registered: 03-30-2003
Who will have NC for the weekend?
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Fri, 05-28-2004 - 7:54am
How many if you are having NC for the long weekend? I know it is only 3 days but the way things are going latley I feel like it will be 3 weeks rather than 3 days!! I know I should actually make my NC longer than this for my sanity but just can't!

Anyway, those of you having NC hugs and peace! And those of you lucky enough to see your OM/MM's..enjoy!

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Registered: 05-17-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 8:04am
Me and my MM will have a NC weekend and his b-day is on Sunday, so it will be a little worse. We are back on after I tried to break it off last week, still unsure if I want to continue with this A. I love him but can't handle the ups and downs any more.

Try to have a good weekend!!!

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Fri, 05-28-2004 - 8:25am
bria

Actually mine will be three weeks not three days! I will most likely see him if I am home on Saturday because he is taking my son with his son somewhere overnight. But we are going away Sat night until Monday. Then MM goes away on Tues for more than two weeks inwhich it will be almost impossible to have any contact. But I am at this point anyway, totally calm about it. He will be back and I am not going to stress anymore while he is gone... I will keep busy and the time will fly by.

I've got my own life to live

:)

dd

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Registered: 04-14-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 8:27am
I'm sure there will be no contact with MM this weekend, it's difficult for him to get on the computer at night. Didn't hear from him yesterday, hope I hear from him today.

Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend :)

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Registered: 05-16-2003
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 8:38am
We will be NC this weekend.. Actually we were suppose to get together last night, but as I was in the shower he called and told me that his in-laws were on their way over and he didn't know that they were coming over!!! What a bunch of crap!! And I didn't get the message until I was almost out the door, so I had to drive down to the beach. I already had an excuse to get out of the house, so I had to. Anyway, H and I are talking more and more about sep/divorce, so not sure if I want to make myself go on with this A anyway!! To many ups and downs on the roller coaster!!

Everyone have a wonderful weekend, and if you're seeing family at picnics enjoy!!!

Chris..

Gina
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Registered: 05-19-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 8:43am
"Baby, When I think About It... I Think About Love-----, Darlin' When I Think About It... I Think About Love---- (singin' the song)

UGGGGGGG....NC here either. Lets see, last week NC... this week NC, next week I'll be on my monthly cycle...You think I'm going to tell him?? Except that he works in my neighborhood and I sometimes I see him in his truck if he drives through with the other developers! I'm going to have to shut my blinds or something. This is getting crazy. I wanted to go out and work in my flower garden, but didn't yesterday because I thought that he would be thinking "what is she doing?" PARANOID??

Does this get you all a little edgy too with NC? I wanted to check the boards late lastnight by DH wouldn't go to bed!!! Am I getting a little rush from here too?? lol

jen

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Registered: 04-29-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 8:46am
Several days of NC with my OM. My family and I are taking a little road trip to see H's brother and his family. I am actually looking forward to the trip, I love their family, we always have a good time. We're leaving sat, gone til Wed, so NC til Wed. But I think I'll do ok :) Maybe it will be good to cool my jets a bit LOL.
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Registered: 03-30-2003
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 8:53am
A month or two ago a long weekend would have meanat nothing. I have just gotten really taken into this over the last few months. I know things for MM do not chnage but I am really obsessing lately. I am hoping the NC will help me as well to gain perspective. I know I am not doing myself, my M or my A any good by feeling this way.

Thanks all and great weekend to all!

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Fri, 05-28-2004 - 8:53am
Jen

YEP! I Just hope with my paranoia I am not turning him off to us. When we "reunited" in Jan one of the things he said was that if we had sex three times in one week and nothing for three weeks he didn't want me to whine about it. well suffice it to say we have NEVER had sex three times in one week. BUT last month it had been 4 weeks since we had been together and I mentioned that to him, he was surprised it had been that long. Now this month it has already been three and he is leaving Tues for more than two weeks with no chance of us hooking up before then. I mentioned to him again that it would be aloooong time, 4 weeks when he leaves...and omg close to 7 by the time he gets back and settled back with work, and he sort of copped a little bit of an attitude.. with "well it isn't like i stock shelves for a living..a week to everyone else is like a day to me". I said I knew and understood, but even though I understand..where is that three times thing?!! I start to second guess everything and feel like I am bugging him and he will just decide it isn't worth it since his W complains about his hours as well.

I've decided to not call him at all even when he gets back... I actually wouldn't mind taking the summer off of this A. I believe to do that all I have to do is not call him!

I 'm done!

:)

dd

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Registered: 06-28-2003
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 3:58pm
I'm trying to convince my OM to have some contact, but I have yet to hear from him. He's one of those that are way cautious, I don't even have his cell phone number. I have to wait for him to call me. All I can do is email and sit back and wait. We will see! Not going to drive myself insane though, wondering if the phone will buzz or the inbox will see new mail.
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Registered: 04-01-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 4:12pm
Not me

I am so spoiled ....

Kikki

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