Who's H/W has no idea of affair?

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Registered: 04-14-2003
Who's H/W has no idea of affair?
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Tue, 11-18-2003 - 4:46pm
Who's husband or wife here has no idea of affair and

you would risk losing it all for your OM/OW?
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Registered: 09-30-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 5:08pm
My H has no idea. Right now I dont think I would risk everything for MM, although I am very much in love with him.
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Registered: 09-18-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 6:08pm
Mine has no idea and I guess I am willing to lose it all because I am doing it and taking that chance.

wishing~

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 6:36pm
Ditto
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Registered: 06-24-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:04pm

Although I was caught out by DH early on in my affair... I'd have to say that I'm pretty sure he no longer suspects that I'm still in it somewhat 3 years afterwards.


As for risking it all... I take that chance every single

Sweet
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Registered: 07-27-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:21pm
I don't know...I guess deep down I don't think my marriage would end if we were found out -- sounds terrible, I know. I'm risking it because MM is so unlike anyone I have ever known. I have never been so intensely attracted to someone (physically, emotionally, intellectually...). I just can't help myself.

 

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Registered: 11-17-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:37pm
Mine is 100% clueless! Has no idea. Yes, I would risk it, if H were to want to leave it really wouldn't be a loss anyhow.

justneedmore

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Registered: 10-06-2003
Wed, 11-19-2003 - 10:00am
My H has no idea, His W maybe has an idea, but dosent seem to care, she knows we spned time together, she thinks we are just good friends (which we are). I thihk I am risking it all for my MM, if we get cought I lose. But I wont miss the house the car the H. But my kids, I dont want them getting hurt. They are the reason I stay with H.

dayz
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Wed, 11-19-2003 - 10:48am
My H has no idea and MM says his W doesn't either. We live in different cities and only communicate during workdays and see each other during the afternoons. No weekend or evening contact unless we've prearranged for something. I am not really willing to risk it all but on the other hand, H has made his choice to continue with his priorities which are more important than me, so I have also set my priorities of what is important to me. If my H ever did find out, then it may give me the motivation I need to leave my M, which I will probably end up doing in a few years once my kids are more grown up anyways.
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