Who's in love with their AP?

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Registered: 08-30-2008
Who's in love with their AP?
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Tue, 01-20-2009 - 8:50pm

So how many of you think you are in love with your AP?

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Registered: 01-16-2009
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 9:01pm

I am so in love w/ Ap/ my son's father, that it is ridiculous. I mean it's not even funny.

Does he love me? Yes, I do believe that he loves me, but a more important question is Does he love me the way that I need to be loved? My answer to that is unequivocally no.

Would I do it again? ABSOLUTELY NOT! The only reason that I hesitated for a second is because w/o AP, there is no Seth, mine and AP's love child, and that child brings me more joy in one day then any parent should be allowed in a lifetime. He is my world (Seth.) If you remove the child from the equation then I say NO WAY!

I am S, and he is M, and it sucks.

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Registered: 10-03-2008
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 9:21pm

i am in love with "whateva you wanna call him" i call him dicchedd these days...anyway..i am so in love with him with no ties that bind us...just our word of love to one another..unfortunately we are not together but, it's okay..i still love him and i'm still in love with him..even if i'm angry, sad,upset or hurt by or with him.....we started out as an EA..it converted to a PA...and would i do it again...ONLY WITH HIM...anyone else..heck nah...i wouldn't know what i'd be getting....


a beautiful relationship formed from "whateva you wanna call him" and me getting together...that was his big brotherhood/godfatherhood/stepfatherhood/unclehood to my DS.....i can only be but so mad at dicchedd these days

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 04-17-2006
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 9:33pm
I am in love with my AP, XAP, I don't even know what he is anymore.....Just becuse he has disappointed me or did not love me back the way I needed to be does not mean that it was all in vain, because I truly believe love is a good thing, and loving someone is never wrong.....the relationship was wrong. We were both M, but my M is more of a mess than his was, hence he needed me way way WAY less than I "needed" him....
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Registered: 05-24-2007
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 10:03pm

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Registered: 11-16-2008
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 10:59pm
Yes, we are in love! I am single. We have been together off and on for almost three years--this last year on. I am happy that we have continued our A, we have a love that I have never felt with anyone. We can tell one another things that we would never tell another soul. First A for both of us. We expect to stay together, I guess time will tell. We will have a lot of decisions to make once we finally make our move to be together--we both have teenagers and jobs and we live about 3 hours apart.
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Registered: 08-03-2008
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 11:57pm

I am absolutely in love with my AP!!

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Registered: 09-17-2008
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 12:22am

MM and I are very much in love, and it shows to all around us. Yesterday we took my dd's out to lunch, and they kept telling us we were so far up the couple hill it was disgusting! (I think they say that with love, right???). Today I asked dd#1 what she would think if we ever did get married, because as I feel right now, I don't ever want to remarry, but, who knows what the future holds. I told her I worried about how she would respond to a step-father, and she said as long as he doesn't hit her the way her father did, than she is fine with it. I think my girls love him too, or, are starting to love him.


I was M until last February 15 when H died from complications of leukemia. We had been married for over 22 years when he died. MM has been married for 32 years, was married at 17, and is still M to the same woman, but, he is there mostly because his mother told him it would never last, and he is still proving to his deceased mother that it will last, even though they are only friends at this point in their relationship.


MM and I are the very best of friends. We both agree that even if the PA ended, the EA never could end. He knows my thoughts before I do, and I complete his sentences for him.


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Registered: 10-23-2008
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 6:56am

Completely in love with my AP - is he in love with me

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Registered: 10-03-2008
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 8:34am
yup scu72, i am not mad at him really..just really sad and anxious over this...

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 12-11-2008
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 11:34am
Yes..we love eachother.

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