Whose rules do you go by? :[
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Whose rules do you go by? :[
| Tue, 10-21-2003 - 4:48pm |
I would get to ticked off, when it seemed like we had to play by MM's rules all of the time. I mean, i was married, too! We got together when HE decided, when HE needed ME....(what about when I needed him? oh, no....) e-mailed at HIS convenience.....It was okay for him to say bad things about my H, but I couldn't dare say anything bad about his W!
Even after we broke up, he still had rules! First, we would be friends while still at work. So, I went along with that (even though seeing him still brought pain to my heart). Then, he decided he only wanted to be "professional". Okay, I thought. Next thing I know, he is walking me to the building and giving me candy. I was confused, but oh well. THEN, all of a sudden, he decides he can't even park his car in the same parking lot, so let's be immature and park SOMEWHERE else!!! oh, boy...grow up will you?
Sorry, just venting...

Edited 9/20/2004 2:14 pm ET ET by seansluv
Anyway, I think part of the problem with the "present rule" system at work has a lot to do with his W. She knows who I am and doesn't like the idea of us still working together. Thank goodness we don't work in the same department. He would continue to e-mail and talk to me at work after the break up, but I guess she would always give him 20 questions after he got home from work. I guess I don't blame her....I just didn't like all of the jerking around he was doing to me when he couldn't make up his mind about the "rules" we had to go by at work.
In the end, after the hot and cold he was giving me, I finally told him off and we don't speak at all now. We avoid each other like the plague. I keep wondering if his W will push him to try to get me fired or something......
Big hugs,
ittybrat