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| Fri, 03-19-2004 - 12:32am |
I came to this board after on another board, a poster was complaining about the distancing of their boyfriend (om? what is om?) anyway, she said she was getting support at the "my affair" board, and I was surprised there was such a thing. Thought she could be joking...so then I found myself here and must say am dismayed.
I was thinking well maybe it was support only for people who are trying to get on the right track with their marriage or divorce whatever. but it also seems to be just helping with people who are in affairs.
So instead of telling you what you've already heard about why some think it's wrong - (including myself obviously)
Why don't you tell me what I havent' heard about why you actually have an affair? Why not leave your partner and be single?

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You described my situation. If you figure it out, let all of us know !!!
Please let all of us know !! LOL
Hi hampton...
I have not read all the replies... but just touched on rainings and a bit of your reply to him... before I went further... I thought I may try and explain my reasons.
My DH is a little like rainings wife... he loves me dearly... but my happiness to him is a slightly lower priority... of course he will never admit that... but after many a counselling session and countless times he refused to do what our counsellor suggested... give me the smaller pleasures in life.
He seems to think that a kiss and cuddle and good sex will sort all out... but while it's good... I enjoy the smaller things... little things that don't mean much... once upon a time... I would ensure that his alarm was set... his watch and wallet were placed by his beside where he could find them... why? because I enjoyed doing all the little things for him... I loved him.
Time makes us complacent... and once when you think you will grow closer and change to the others ideals... you being to grow apart and be the person that you once were.
Sweet
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