Go NC for a while to sort out your feelings.Your A is very new( few months if i remember correctly) so you will be able to do it now.Longer you stay in it, more you will get sucked in.then falling in love,blah blah blah.That would be a difficult situation. Your AP ( and you too,lol!)sound crazy !!!
(( hugs )) IMHO, if you have an A where there is love and mutual respect for each others feelings/emotions and it was missing in your M,then ,that A can open your eyes to what your life can be if you left the miserable M.But if your AP is nothing less than your H,then,well,what can i say? I am sorry your A was not about love.If your AP loved you, he wouldnt have done that. But dont give up hope,there are good guys and you will find someone who will love you,warts and all. Take care.
Your AP ( and you too,lol!)sound crazy !!!
Dont trust a SM blindly by what he says.Take your jolly good time to evaluate your M.If this SM is genuine,he will stick around.
PeacE
"If this SM is genuine,he will stick around"
That's the best advice I've heard all day! Thank you!
Yes, My AP and I are crazy.
IMHO, if you have an A where there is love and mutual respect for each others feelings/emotions and it was missing in your M,then ,that A can open your eyes to what your life can be if you left the miserable M.But if your AP is nothing less than your H,then,well,what can i say?
I am sorry your A was not about love.If your AP loved you, he wouldnt have done that.
But dont give up hope,there are good guys and you will find someone who will love you,warts and all.
Take care.