Why ?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
Why ?
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Thu, 06-04-2009 - 8:48am
Why am I so confuse when it come to my AP ?
“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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Registered: 11-12-2008
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 06-04-2009 - 9:05am
Go NC for a while to sort out your feelings.Your A is very new( few months if i remember correctly) so you will be able to do it now.Longer you stay in it, more you will get sucked in.then falling in love,blah blah blah.That would be a difficult situation.
Your AP ( and you too,lol!)sound crazy !!!
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Registered: 06-19-2008
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 06-04-2009 - 3:30pm

Dont trust a SM blindly by what he says.Take your jolly good time to evaluate your M.If this SM is genuine,he will stick around.

PeacE

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 06-04-2009 - 7:09pm

"If this SM is genuine,he will stick around"

That's the best advice I've heard all day! Thank you!

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Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 06-04-2009 - 7:19pm

Yes, My AP and I are crazy.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 06-04-2009 - 7:21pm
If it meant to be he would stick around.. but after today do I really want him to..
msfoolishheart
“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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Registered: 11-12-2008
In reply to: galcurve
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 9:39am
(( hugs ))
IMHO, if you have an A where there is love and mutual respect for each others feelings/emotions and it was missing in your M,then ,that A can open your eyes to what your life can be if you left the miserable M.But if your AP is nothing less than your H,then,well,what can i say?
I am sorry your A was not about love.If your AP loved you, he wouldnt have done that.
But dont give up hope,there are good guys and you will find someone who will love you,warts and all.
Take care.