Why did I want to believe him???
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| Mon, 12-29-2003 - 12:15am |
Just to introduce myself a bit before asking a question, I ended the A 5 years ago was in it for 18 months.He is married to the same woman, I am still married as well.
At the time my M was in very bad shape and I needed a friend and believed he was one, in time I learned he really was not one, I thought he was a nice guy ,guess again right.
I guess time has given me a prespective that is not that common when you are in the A.
The Question I would like answered is : If the MM is cheating on his wife lieing to her, scheeming toget together with the OW and in some cases spending family assets on her how could "I" or anyone else convince are selfs that he is a NICE OR DECENT person.
If it was "MY" or your husband doing this to "ME" are you would we think of him as a nice guy, How about if your sisters husband or your best girlfriends husband was doing it to them?
I do not mean to offend anyone by this question or insult any genuine good men some may be involved with, It is just that I now know a bunch of women in this situation (B/S's) and am wondering now how "I" could have believed all the B**LSH*T he was feeding about his mean/bad/frigid wife etc, I know her now on a personal basis and she really is an ok person that most people posting here would most likly be ok with (NO she does not know about the A).

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Edited 1/5/2004 7:28:02 AM ET by fantasyhere
I understood what you were saying and my comment was a general one. I did not assume that you were talking about yourself. :-)
Rose
whats with the drillmaster comment, If you did not understand the question was only intended to generate discusion ,if I offended you in some way I AM SORRY.
free
Edited 1/5/2004 7:28:39 AM ET by fantasyhere
Did I P/O you are what?
I don't mind if I did but would like to know how I did it in case I may want to do it again in the future.
Free to laught my a*s off
FREE
Edited 1/5/2004 7:29:59 AM ET by fantasyhere
You don't need any coaching to p/o anybody, free. Do are doing allright by yourself
Your typeing on the other hand , what can I say?
FREE TO P/O YOU
free
I was just wondering what I said that set you off, Did I have the bad tast to disagree with you at some point.
By the way I assume you are hideing under a new screen name as I could not find any post under your new one.
NO GUTS NO GLORY
free
Edited 1/5/2004 7:29:25 AM ET by fantasyhere
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