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why didn't I come sooner
| Wed, 04-29-2009 - 10:01am |
I spent most of yesterday just reading posts. It has been sooooo helpful to just be here.
| Wed, 04-29-2009 - 10:01am |
I spent most of yesterday just reading posts. It has been sooooo helpful to just be here.
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It's a process and an evolution.
That makes alot of sense. My H is a church staff member too.
wow, btrue.
thanks for sharing that. i frequently read posts that say "leave your M" but i never know how that is done. i would imagine it happens just like you said - realizing over and over that you can't live like this even if it looks like a fairy tale from the outside.
you are amazingly brave and i hope you feel rewarded for that.
Mrs.
torn,
i need to go back and read your story but you sound like a decent woman in a bad situation. how do we get here? i ask myself every day.
my MM and i have never discussed leaving. only recently, i shared something about my M with him - i don't ask about his. in the middle of that, i said only feel like i need to hang on for one more year (for a family event) and then i don't know what i will be thinking about my M. at that moment, i felt a shift in MM that scared me, wondering if he thought we would change - better or worse, together or apart. for the first time, i didn't ask what he was thinking.
i know what it is like to feel two extremes at the same time.
Mrs.
Mrs.
I did just that.
HIJACK.
Mrs.!
Hi!
I continue to follow your story.
Be true,
Hi.
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Well I always knew something would have to be said to the congregation.
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very insightful. part of the investment.
and yes it sounds like you were the whipping girl. there was no reason to tell the congregation the reason for the split. that could have been handled much differently and with much more compassion for all parties.
Mrs.
more hijack -
hi fly!
thank you for your support. we're good for now - largely because he is respectful of me and attentive to my moods. and we both know the risks.
Mrs.
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