Why do I want to do this??

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-05-2008
Why do I want to do this??
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Sat, 09-13-2008 - 7:04pm

Hi there,


I am married and have been for 12 years.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2006
Sat, 09-13-2008 - 7:21pm
Having an A won't get it out of your system. It gets farther into your system, especially the longer it goes on.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2000
Sun, 09-14-2008 - 2:56am
I do not think that having an affair is the answer to your problems with your husband. It is time for you to GET HONEST with him and tell him how you feel. Before you take a step that could potentially destroy your marriage and your family, you should take a step towards working on the issues you obviously have.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2006
Sun, 09-14-2008 - 3:38am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-05-2008
Sun, 09-14-2008 - 7:17am

Hi Silly Me,


Thank you for your post. I appreciate your honesty.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-05-2008
Sun, 09-14-2008 - 7:29am

Hi Old Love,


Thank you for your response.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-05-2008
Sun, 09-14-2008 - 8:04am

Hi Lacey,


Thank you for your response.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Sun, 09-14-2008 - 11:13am

Sweetpea, I am sending big hugs your way!

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-05-2008
Sun, 09-14-2008 - 12:32pm

Hi obxbell,


Thank you so much for validating that I am not alone.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Sun, 09-14-2008 - 3:34pm

After I had the A and got back with my H, I really thought that whatever made me have the A in the first place, was "out of my system".