Why does he act like this?
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Why does he act like this?
| Thu, 05-20-2004 - 6:55am |
OM/MM called this morning on his way to work as usual. I was on the phone with a guy friend of mine and H's when he called. At first I didn't tell him that I was on the other line. He asked if I was on my PC, I said no I was on the phone with a friend. He's like "a guy friend" so I said yes. Then he started in on me saying, "first you talk to guys on the comp, now its on your home phone. What next? Is he comming over?" I said no, he lives in a different state. He said, "well if he wants to come for a visit your surely not going to say no." I was very offended to say the least. I don't know where that came from. I asked what his problem was and he said, "you know I'm jealous over you." I just don't know why he acted that way, he knows I am not looking for anyone else. I mean is it just him being insecure or is talking to a guy friend on the phone that terrible? He also told me that I have no business talking to other guys while we are together(not even if they are my friends). Are your OM/MM jealous like this? Sorry if I am rambling just a little hurt and mad right now. Thanks for always listening.

I can think of a few possiblities as to why:
1) He is insecure person
2) He has been cheated before by somebody he loved
3) He's got these girl friends that he sees two (or even three) timing on their SO's that he thinks they are the norm as far the women population goes, which is not true.
4) He has somebody telling bad things about you all the time, that he is starting to believe them.
If you case is any one of the above you have some hope, but if its all of the above, it can be long battles and dissapointments. Good Luck! Not a great place to be.
Edited 5/20/2004 9:15 am ET ET by fantasyhere
Edited 5/20/2004 9:15 am ET ET by fantasyhere
I always tell my guy that he is sexy, smart and so perfect for me. I always reassure him on those things over and over again. Heck, somedays, he needs to get a retraining order to keep me away from him. LOL He knows how I feel, for I can really maul him on somedays... LOL