Why is my heart breaking....
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Why is my heart breaking....
| Mon, 10-27-2003 - 10:59am |
I told H that I have finally made up my mind and I want a divorce. I'm just no longer in love with him. I am also not physically attracted to him at all. I didn't tell him but I don't think that I was ever really deeply in love with him. I can remember right before the wedding wanting to call it off but I just couldn't hurt him. Now it's the same thing. I can't stand seeing him hurt. I want to stay everytime I see him so sad. My problem is that I'm leaving a good, decent guy. I just can't love him like I want to love him. Any advice? He's hurting so bad. He claims to have finally realized what he has. I just have so much anger built up from years of him ignoring me. I'm sad.

All the power to you. Just remember, that life goes on and you will be ok and so will he.
((hugs))
"blue"
Ending any relationship is hurtful and scary. Hang in there, do what is best for you and your family and make sure that it is something that you can live with. Don't give into what others think you should be feeling, saying, doing. It is your life, yes our actions affect those around us but so do our inactions. As I have said before, life happens regardless of what you do or don't do, so be an active participant in your life and be the one who controls where it goes.
saatty