WHY???....double standard?

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Registered: 05-07-2003
WHY???....double standard?
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Tue, 02-10-2004 - 4:13am
I'd like a group opinion...something to really think about...

WHY is it taken as no big deal when a married man has an affair, yet if a married woman has an affair then its HORRIBLE!!! HOW could she??!?!?

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ANd when a man has an affair...how come the "other woman" makes the wife out to be the "bad guy".

everything is based "good or bad" depending on which side of the fence youre sitting on..


A few months back, in Dear abby's column...there was a letter written from a woman who was miserable in her marriage, but she had taken her vows and felt like she was doomed to be miserable the rest of her life rather than break them..

Two ministers replied...both of them saying...God did not intend any marriage to be miserable and if it was then it was not a marriage in God's eyes...and the vows had no merit..

not that im saying either/or ..just that it was interesting to see their view..






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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-21-2004
Wed, 02-11-2004 - 10:19am

good morning summersnow.

CL-Gurlfriend50

Co-CL of My Affair Support Board

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-07-2003
Wed, 02-11-2004 - 9:45pm
tell me about it!!...while everyone is entitled to an opinion..sometimes patience (and forgiveness ) runs a might thin..

as the vulture said "patience be damned i wanna KILL something!"

and as some of us know...the joys of menopause puts patience on a hair trigger (ok quite laughing you 30 year olds..your time is coming)


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