Wife found out ....
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Wife found out ....
| Fri, 10-16-2009 - 9:57pm |
I have lurked here extensively from time to time. Sometime to validate I wasn't the only one on this rollercoaster.
I have had an A with AP for over 2 1/2 yrs. We are both married and we work together. A couple of weeks ago

First, don't believe everything your MM tells you. Usually when the W finds out the MM walks on water trying to get her to forgive him. You were giving him great S and of course he wants to keep it going. He has the best of both worlds. A woman at home and a woman on the side. It's every man's dream. But when it comes down to the threat of him losing his family over you, he will throw you under the bus faster than you can sneeze and cleave to his W and beg for forgiveness.
You really need to decide what you need to do about your own M. Find out why you decided to step outside your M. Women are very intiutive and I guarantee you that his W knows. Men sang like a canary to their W once their wives find out they are cheating. Worry about what you are going to do. He is a big boy and he is M to someone else as you are. Take one day at a time and do what is best for you. Also, be prepared because the W may contact your H. They usually do. Are you ready to stop living a lie and tell the truth?