wife interception

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2007
wife interception
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Sat, 08-23-2008 - 12:43pm

new to this board but I need help Im sick to my stomach, I sent a text that I think has been intercepted by wife, he normally calls to let me know he received, he doesn't text so he usually calls, I just have this feeling n the pit of my stomach. He wasn't supposed to be home this am, there were no names on the text and it was actually an "I cant do this anymore" text nothing to reveling as I do this a lot after were together( a long story I have trouble being the other woman)I don't want him to be found out, I am safe as I said there is only my cell #on the text. anyone have any advice I love this man to death and for him to be found out is the last thing Would ever want


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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-27-2007
In reply to: rat62
Sat, 08-23-2008 - 12:50pm
Calm down and stop making yourself sick. It was a completely meaningless text that no-one would consider to be anything other than probably
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2007
In reply to: rat62
Sat, 08-23-2008 - 12:54pm
thanks for your response, this is just the first time I have had anything
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-16-2008
In reply to: rat62
Sat, 08-23-2008 - 1:17pm

Ohhh, be careful with texting!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2007
In reply to: rat62
Sat, 08-23-2008 - 1:46pm
I think your right I am looking for some reassurance from my AP, I just am not sure how to get it or if I ever will, I need a lot of it, this has been going on for a
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-18-2008
In reply to: rat62
Sat, 08-23-2008 - 4:09pm
Thanks a lot for this post. You've hit the spot with texting AP for some reassurance. I did that a few times and I really must not do it again because I think my AP already thinks of them as empty threats. And as you said, I was looking for some reaction from him.

I should print out your post and read it every time I feel like sending him "It's over" text.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-16-2008
In reply to: rat62
Sat, 08-23-2008 - 6:01pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2007
In reply to: rat62
Sat, 08-23-2008 - 6:58pm
its ok to laugh and it is good to find that every one goes thru this .sometimes i feeel so alone because there is no one to confide in because this is so taboo if any one wants to email me feel free I need a friend in this
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2008
In reply to: rat62
Sat, 08-23-2008 - 11:48pm
here are you friends..mas is your support! gosh 4 or five times i've tried to 'end it'...but it is harder to be without him then with him...took that many attempts to figure that out...finally i just got introspective, i looked within...then shared why i did that...he thanked me for it...and i admitted to myself and him that it would crush me if he did it to me once, let alone multiple times....hang in there lady...we got your back.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2007
In reply to: rat62
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 1:23pm
thanks for the support, I am calling tomorrow to beg forgiveness and hopefully the interception didn't happen and all will be well, I do appreciate the support of the boards with all this, maybe I can deal with my issues here instead of ending things yet again, by the way this has been going on for almost 20 years, yes I did mean 20
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2008
In reply to: rat62
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 1:28pm
hang in...no need to beg for forgiveness!!! 20 years--looks like HE isn't going anywhere OMG how did u survive???????

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