Will affair screw me in the end?
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Will affair screw me in the end?
| Tue, 04-13-2004 - 3:40pm |
One thing I am concerned about getting caught having an affair I wonder if my H divorces me will my affair keep me from getting the kids, alimony, ect.? I'm not looking to divorce at this point but I worry if I get caught how will it affect my life. I also worry about my OM because I know she will milk him dry if she catches him.

I don't really know. I think it may depend on what state you live in. When I found out about all the H's affairs I went to a lawyer to see what my options were...we've been married 22 years.....he said we are a "no fault" state. That means the court doesn't care who did what to whom, and if you start trying to finger point it definately goes against you. Basically since we had been married so long he thought we would have a 60/40 split of assets. H would pay child support since he made more money. I wanted to air H's dirty laundry because one of his affairs was with an extremely younger girl, she was 16 at the time it began and he was 25.......I found out 13 years after the fact. Anyway, it costs nothing to talk to a lawyer and see what the options would be.
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