Will things change between us?

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Registered: 08-15-2004
Will things change between us?
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Tue, 08-26-2008 - 11:23am

Ok, I don´t have an affair neither I want to have one, but I´m in a difficult situation here and would appreciate advice from people that "have been there". I live with my fiancé, we´ve been together for 3 years

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Registered: 08-19-2008
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 12:14pm

If you know this is how you are, then I think you should be honest with your fiancee and let him know you have no problem doing ONS with guys you feel sexually attracted with and is he okay with that. It wouldn't be fair to him if when you two are M and you have no control over these types of urges. You'll be exposing him to all kinds of dangerous diseases not to mention the pain he'll feel by being betrayed.

It's good you're not M yet. It's easier to get out of an R now. Maybe not a good idea to take vows if you know you can't keep it and as you already know there will always be temptation.

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