Will your A

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2008
Will your A
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Wed, 12-10-2008 - 7:01am

survive the holidays? This is my first holiday since our A started and my AP has been so on his promise to stay in contact.He came back from holiday and brought a very thoughtful gift for me and is calling/making plans to see and keeping them.i was doubtful for no reason.
i guess my A will survive.

Will yours?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2008
Thu, 12-11-2008 - 5:18pm

Hi everyone..


I am new to the boards and this is my first post..so hello!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2003
Thu, 12-11-2008 - 6:10pm

hi camilionag!


thank you, i think ~about the free spirit thing~~.

~k
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2003
Thu, 12-11-2008 - 6:15pm

oh and i forgot, up until 2.5 yrs i never dreamt i would ever be with another man.......

~k
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-09-2008
Fri, 12-12-2008 - 2:04am

I have no idea how you keep up and don't slip up.

I'm sure my A will survive the holidays but there will be a lot of LC and at first it has to be initiated by me due to family visiting. I don't want to back off, but I can't see how I'm going to get to see him much.

Pisces

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2008
Fri, 12-12-2008 - 8:20am

I am not sure if my A will survive the holidays this year.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-23-2008
Fri, 12-12-2008 - 10:12am

My A will survive the holidays and this is our first

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2007
Fri, 12-12-2008 - 1:50pm
Dear Goddess, why were you hiding your wisdom for so long? just a cookie on a side not a main meal...it has never been said better! It opened my eyes on A from a different angle....love it! Thanks
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2008
Fri, 12-12-2008 - 2:05pm
Ahhh, but it's a must know if we want to keep ourselves in the A and happy. Don't have unrealistic expectations. We're an option not the priority. Enjoy the moment you get together.....


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Registered: 11-26-2007
Fri, 12-12-2008 - 2:19pm
God dam it, you are wise :) And honestly, I do not think, I want to be just a cookie on a side....as naive as it sounds, I did not realize that before....before i read your post. I guess, i considered myself as a part of main meal, but I know it was delusional.......
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-22-2008
Sat, 12-13-2008 - 5:02pm
Yes, our A will survive the holidays. We've survived so many holidays already.... The summer vacation is the longest and worst for us. But we're in an LDA and used to being apart. Last time we met up was in November, next time February (hopefully).. Not easy, but absolutely worth it.


Edwina