wine induced email update

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Registered: 01-04-2004
wine induced email update
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Sun, 01-11-2004 - 12:58pm
lol, well about 2 hrs after sending the the email i debated for days about sending, i got a reply. all it said was " mon? tues?". i immediately sent another one that back that said either or both. so all weekend ive been thinking "COOL", and have been just cruising around on cloud 9. well last night i heard from a co-worker that he left on friday and wont be back in town until tuesday. so now im wondering, why suggest mon or tues and then leave, obviously the trip was planned in advance, OR, did he just say that at work so its easier for him to spend a day with me? someone hand me a seatbelt!

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Registered: 01-02-2004
Sun, 01-11-2004 - 3:54pm
I don't know daizey. See what happens Mon or Tues (co-worker could have been wrong or mistaken) and you could get together after all. If not, and he lied to you, well.... you know how that goes about the bed we make and the choices we make. As hard as it may be to do, don't let it get you down too much. It is, after all, the nature of the relationship, is it not? Good luck to ya.

Pen

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 11:16am
daizey - did you hear from MM today or is he away? what's going on??

gurl

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Registered: 01-04-2004
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 11:38am
no word yet! its still early though, but i do have my fingers crossed!
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 12:12pm
Hi girls, I haven't heard from my MM yet either. Not since before Xmas. I sent a small "hi" this morning. If I don't hear from him by the end of today, I think I'm going to try and call it quits. Which will obviously be what he wanted anyways.

Lazy, about the going out of town thing? My MM would quite often say something like "lets get together Wed" then that day he tells me he has some court date or something and can't come over. Its usually some type of thing that I think "he had to know beforehand that this was on that day". So why bother saying you'll come over when you know that you won't? Maybe its just so I wouldn't get mad at him because usually when he cancelled, I'd let it go, but a couple of times I got a little angry about being cancelled on at the last minute.

Anyhow, I really feel down. My heart feels like its in my stomach right now, just waiting to see if I hear from him. Then if I do, my heart will be racing.

If I don't hear from him, I'll probably be crying by tonight, even though I told myself I wasn't going to get emotionally attached to him. Stupid me.

Dusty
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Mon, 01-12-2004 - 12:23pm
dusty, wow girl, my heart goes out to you. i read an earlier post that basically said we're not addicted to the mm himself, but to the way they make us feel. like how we basically do cartwheels over an email. i was asking myself today would i want to be with this guy forever? honestly the answer is NO. im crossing my fingers for you today :)
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 12:28pm
Thanks, did you hear from your guy?? I just feel absolutely SICK right now He said hello. Now my heart is racing. I'll let you guys know what happens ...
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Mon, 01-12-2004 - 12:39pm
lol, dusty and i seem to be on an identical ride, she's just a few hours behind!
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 12:51pm
Okay, so he says he's still sick with the flu he caught out west on vacation. And he's had it since he got back that's why NC. So we'll see what happens. Maybe I will see him again then.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 1:55pm
dusty -- i just gotta say it girl ---- even IF, and that's a great, big IF, MM does still have "the flu", he's been online and in the office, right? and you've put out a couple of emails right? if he has the flu, does that mean his fingers are broken too???????

enuf said!

gurl

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 3:35pm
Okay, so here's his story, that he caught the flu on vacation and has been really sick since. And was only working halfdays up to now. He's already gone home today. Anyways, I am not making any suggestions for him to visit me, and I should probably think it over too. But, I really do enjoy our times together!! So, its a tough decision to make.

Dusty
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