wine induced email update

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Registered: 01-04-2004
wine induced email update
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Sun, 01-11-2004 - 12:58pm
lol, well about 2 hrs after sending the the email i debated for days about sending, i got a reply. all it said was " mon? tues?". i immediately sent another one that back that said either or both. so all weekend ive been thinking "COOL", and have been just cruising around on cloud 9. well last night i heard from a co-worker that he left on friday and wont be back in town until tuesday. so now im wondering, why suggest mon or tues and then leave, obviously the trip was planned in advance, OR, did he just say that at work so its easier for him to spend a day with me? someone hand me a seatbelt!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 4:08pm
but do the good times outweigh the bad? it doesn't sound like it. unless you can attempt being 10th on his list, below everything else, and accept the bits and pieces of his time and effort with you, and NOT COMPLAIN ABOUT IT, then i say, go ahead and let him come and go as he pleases. but i'd like to think you'd say "no way" to that kind of treatment. just my thoughts, honey.

gurl

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 4:19pm
I know, and I shouldn't accept that kind of behavior. But its like a drug I need to have. And I try to tell myself its only for sex, I can use him just as he seems to be using me. But then when I'm with him, he is so considerate. I'm just really confused and if only H would take more interest, then it might be easier to say "see ya" to MM.

Dusty
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