Wish it would stay this way...

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Registered: 12-24-2008
Wish it would stay this way...
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Wed, 03-04-2009 - 7:24pm
Well, last time I talked to MM was Monday. He told me he had to take his daughter (adult daughter) out of town for a doctors appointment and would be gone Tuesday...said I would "hear" from him, meaning, he'd text...don't worry, I wasn't holding my breath. Never heard a word from him Tuesday...apparently he called in and took a vacation for today also, never heard a word out of him today either. It was just so much more relaxed knowing he wasn't there and I wish it could be like that everyday. It would be so much easier if I never had to see him again. Just sharing how I'm feeling today...thanks.
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Registered: 06-01-2008
Wed, 03-04-2009 - 7:33pm
Gabby, I also work with my ap (x of today) and I know what you mean about it being relaxing when they're not around.
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Registered: 12-24-2008
Wed, 03-04-2009 - 10:12pm
Wow, 5 months NC...that's quite a bit of time. How long before NC did you see each other? Who initiated the reconnection?
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Registered: 10-03-2008
Thu, 03-05-2009 - 12:58pm
glad mine is not here today..i'm more fortunate than you guys though he's not here everyday..was here the other day..i ignored him even when he spoke..lol lol lol....but we still talked by text and phone..we had a big phone blowout..something about him being mad that when

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 10-27-2008
Fri, 03-06-2009 - 12:20pm
I know what you mean...I sit across from my AP and sometimes the way she flirts on the phone with other men drives me crazy...I want to find intent in it but she just needs attention it's who she is.....but it doesn't make it easy for me.
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Registered: 02-08-2009
Sat, 03-07-2009 - 3:50pm

The fact that you feel better and more relaxed when he’s not there should tell you something.

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Registered: 12-24-2008
Sat, 03-07-2009 - 7:15pm
You're right, Karotini...but I'm not telling him a damn thing.. If he says anything to me, which I'm waiting for because like I mentioned before, I loaned him some things when he moved out so I'm sure he'll be trying to give them back to me and when he does, that's when I'll let him have it! Otherwise, I will walk right by him and not say a word.
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Registered: 11-12-2008
Sun, 03-08-2009 - 11:31am
I agree, if you guys feel better and are relaxed in absence ,then something is seriously wrong in your R/A !
you are supposed to feel good,better, relaxed,happy in each others presence.
urgh, sorry, what am i missing???