Wishing I could do........

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-25-2008
Wishing I could do........
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Mon, 09-08-2008 - 4:55pm

Who else struggles with not being able to do all those little & big special things....that you would love to do for your AP, be it not an A?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2008
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 5:10pm

I just try thinking that he needs me...that we are good when we are good together...that one day we may be huh


just generally try to think positive about the situation but agreed yes I do have those feelings....

Like sleep over night with them...

See them when they wake up etc....thats a biggy for me and no it is not being fullfilled...

But then thats the nature of A land....

Trust me you are not alone in feeling this...


Kind Regards,

LT xxx


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-25-2008
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 5:33pm

Thanks LT!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-09-2008
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 6:57am

TB, there with you. I probably won't even be able to see him on his birthday. Not being able to say goodnight in his arms...

We either have to accept it or get out of the A.

Pisces




Edited 11/23/2008 8:17 pm ET by pisces2008
pisces
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Registered: 09-09-2008
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 2:36pm

Oh goodness, yes. There are so many things that I would give anything to be able to do. A big one for me is not being able to contact him whenever I want to. Sometimes I really hate having to wait for him to contact me when it is "all clear."

You are not alone.