wonderful night with mm

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Registered: 04-25-2003
wonderful night with mm
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Tue, 11-11-2003 - 5:53pm
I want to yell from the roof tops how wonderful MM is. Last week my H went away. My Best friend came over and watch my s. MM and I went to ther shore for the night. We have ben together for over a year now. Things are getting very serious. we stayed at a wonderful hotel. It was victorian, facing the ocean. Dinner, wine. then he gave me a pair of diamond earrings. I havnt taken the out yey. Luckly H pays no attention to me t all. They're so big he probably thinks they're fake. If he asks thats what I'll say.

MMw ant s me to leave H and marry him? He says He'll leave his W tomorrow if I said so. I want to but I'm too afraid. DS is only 2.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 11-12-2003 - 12:57pm
nickel -- your MM does sound wonderful, attentive and definitely gives great gifts! but please don't jump into anything too soon. think about your future and your son's future.

is your M bad? i can't tell much from your post, but go slowly. changing your life for great sex and diamond earrings isn't always the answer. do you love this man? can you see yourself living with him, with your child, for the next 40 years?? do you think he will be faithful to you, since you are in an EMA with him??

think long and carefully and talk honestly with MM before you decide anything.

saying all that, you do sound wonderfully happy and over the moon about your MM. good for you. remember, you deserve to be happy. if MM makes you happy and H does not, go for it girl.

good luck and keep in touch,

gurl