wondering if it's over

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2008
wondering if it's over
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Sun, 08-24-2008 - 8:05am

Last Sunday was the last time AP contacted me, we met, spent three wonderful hours together.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-27-2007
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 11:07am

Oh, honey. I have no advice to give. Just support. I am so very sorry for what you're going through. But you know what you have to do and you are strong enough to do it.


You're right - your H needs you. I'm really sorry - the health issue does not sound good - he will need you 100%. Think of yourself as lucky that you still love H enough - and don't love AP enough - that you can end things with AP so that you can be there for your H. You know that is what will help you sleep at night.


We are all here for you, even if you are no longer in an A. Many here struggle with the decision you're about to make, so we can all help you through this. And check back in as you go along this journey. Others will be able to gain strength from you too.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2008
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 2:41pm
Just want to say that I know how you feel. Going thru something similar myself. It's torture isn't it? Just wanted to let you know I understand and your not on your own! x
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2008
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 5:53pm
You CAN do it, you CAN be strong enough, I have been NC for 9 days, and I feel like a much stronger person because of it, I feel like I am getting myself back, each day gets a little easier, and I feel a little bit better, as time goes on. Yes, I have weak moments, but just one slip up and I am back to square one. I miss him, but I don't NEED him, like I once thought I did. You can do it, ignore his call, if he calls, its the only way. Good Luck!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2007
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 6:56pm
One day at a time sweetie..i think you know it needs to end..but it is indeed so hard to 'do it"..hang in there! You deserve to be with someone who consistently makes you feel beautiful & loved!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2008
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 8:28pm

I know I need to do this, I know I have to be strong.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-09-2008
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 11:40pm

Sending you hugs, strength and support. I know this must be so hard for you, but we're here for you.

Pisces

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pisces
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-11-2008
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 12:27am

I will only ask one question-

what color are YOUR eyes? Would like to celebrate the woman with the beautiful eyes moving on...

Thank you for sharing your story, your heartache, your realization.

You have no idea how much you have helped.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2008
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 5:03am
Thank you, Pisces.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2008
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 5:07am

what color are YOUR eyes? Would like to celebrate the woman with the beautiful eyes moving on...


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-18-2008
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 5:15am
Sorry you're going through this. I completely understand because I feel the same way. Sent a text to AP today to ask him something and when I get the answer I will now if this is worthwhile or not. I'm not feeling good because I feel like the answer won't be a positive one.

Hope you'll feel better soon and that the pain will subside.

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