worry

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worry
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Sun, 05-10-2009 - 1:43am

My AP had ask me for my home address to sent me something for mother day. I told him NO.

playing the fool..is never easy

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Registered: 08-04-2005
In reply to: msfoolishheart
Sun, 05-10-2009 - 8:26am
Not trying to scare you. But what he is doing would worry me too. Is he single? Its a lot better when you are both married. That way you both have the same things to loose. You need to have a face to face with him. Let him know how you feel about the way he is acting. This is a major red flag. I am afraid for you.:(
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In reply to: msfoolishheart
Sun, 05-10-2009 - 10:37am
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Edited 7/26/2009 10:48 pm ET by goblinqueen79
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In reply to: msfoolishheart
Sun, 05-10-2009 - 11:44am

The 11 or more missed calls would kinda freak me out too. Tell him how you feel, and if he continues, I don't know what you can do. That's what would freak me out - the great majority of "stalked" people in the world are ordinary people, not famous celebrities (we just hear more about them because they're famous). So I might be hypersensitive to signs of possibly "obsessive" people - because it's such a nightmare to live through, from what I've heard.

The address thing wouldn't bother me because if you give someone a landline home phone number, you basically give them your address - it's a 3 second process to find it! A lot of people don't realize this. Cell phone numbers seem safer but there could be something I don't know about there too. (Anyone know? I'm curious about that).

Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.

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Registered: 05-04-2009
In reply to: msfoolishheart
Sun, 05-10-2009 - 6:03pm

Thank you for your respond.

playing the fool..is never easy
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Registered: 05-04-2009
In reply to: msfoolishheart
Mon, 05-11-2009 - 7:53am

Thank you for your reply..


I never gave my AP my home landline number.

playing the fool..is never easy
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Registered: 12-30-2008
In reply to: msfoolishheart
Mon, 05-11-2009 - 11:01am

It really is that easy... because unless you've got an unlisted number you will be listed in the phone companies online database. For kicks i tried just my name and city in one of them... and up popped my address and land line number. And some.. but not all cell phone providers have the info listed too... i know that from my other searches.

Seriously folks... try googling your name... your usernames... try sticking your phone numbers in the reverse look ups. You may be surprised just how much information someone can get about you with very little effort.

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Registered: 11-12-2008
In reply to: msfoolishheart
Tue, 05-12-2009 - 10:50am

" Ladies be careful who you choose as your AP..

I wanted to add, that he always say, I love you at the end of our conversation..Is my AP a nut ?"

LOL! you are warning other ladies but look where you have landed yourself?? change your AP,asap! jk.

This guy sounds like the one who would be difficult to get rid of,if need be.

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Registered: 05-04-2009
In reply to: msfoolishheart
Tue, 05-12-2009 - 5:55pm

This guy sounds like the one who would be difficult to get rid of,if need be.


Or maybe he just playing me ... Everyday I get up thinking what the hell am I doing ?

playing the fool..is never easy
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Registered: 08-04-2005
In reply to: msfoolishheart
Tue, 05-12-2009 - 7:57pm
You mention he is 29 yrs old. How old are you? He is young
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In reply to: msfoolishheart
Wed, 05-13-2009 - 5:55am

My thoughts about him is that he playing me.

playing the fool..is never easy

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