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Would you put up with this?
| Mon, 02-09-2004 - 12:38pm |
Some of you may know my story. I'm married, om is single. He hasn't been in much contact with me since our first ic a few months ago. Kind of ran since he was getting attached, or so he said. I thought he had changed his user name because I never saw him on-line, but the last few weeks he was back on-line. I resisted for so long, but then finally im'd him last week. We talked for a long while, it got a little sexy, it was great. Then he was on-line again over the weekend. We talked for a long while again, had some deep conversations, got a little sexy again. He wanted me to come over but my H was home. He had told me that could never happen again after we had ic, so I was a little surprised. Anyway, he was slow with his responses and I asked what was up. He said he was in a chat room and also im a guy friend. So I said well I'll let you go, but he kept saying no don't go. I said I would be back I wanted to get my pjs on and get some tea. He said you just want to go suck off your H or something. I said lol, he was sleeping and said brb. I was gone for about 15 minutes and when I came back he was like a different person. He started interrogating me about why I knew so much about his guy friend he was chatting to. He's sort of famous and I said I just knew of him, I don't know him. He said I don't buy it, why do you know so much of his connection to me (I hadn't even said anything about this). I said you just told me a few minutes ago you were iming this guy and told me how you were connected. So then he just says I have to go and I said just like that, what the f is this about. He said bye "my user name", not my real name, have a nice evening. I said this could have been so much more fun and then he slammed the door. So I called his cell the next day and left a voicemail. He didn't call back. I think he may be out of town now for a while, but I did send an e-mail asking what the hell. Who know if I'll get a reply. What could this be about? Now I'm kind of hooked again because I know he wants to hook up. I'm so frustrated I could just scream at the top of my lungs. And of course hide the feelings from H and no one to talk with. I'm trying to just go with the positive...hey he did im me and that was fun, but it ended so weird. I mean I can't figure this out. Any perspectives on this one? Also, would you be offended if your other was chatting with others while they im you, or in a chat room, or is that really no big deal? Thanks all, C

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I can just tell - none of you sound like any kind of experts to me ;-)
Anyways, I was only relating my experience with my H getting drunk and being on the computer hitting up on girls. And telling them he was "single".
cowboy, honey, that's all you can do is wait and see whether
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
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