Would you trust him?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-12-2002
Would you trust him?
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Thu, 11-13-2003 - 10:54am
This question is for those who would like to marry their OM/MM (not everyone would). Suppose you had that opportunity. Given the nature of your current relationship, would you trust him not to do to you what he did to his wife? Never, always, only under certain circumstances? Why or why not?

Could/would he trust you? Again, why/why not?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2003
Wed, 11-26-2003 - 9:55am
Definately and he trusts me. We have had this discussion many times. And yes I'd marry him in a second and will someday. His wife is leaving soon and I will be leaving my H to be with him. We have known each other for 12+ years and we have a very strong relationship.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-18-2003
Wed, 11-26-2003 - 11:03am
My MM and I just had this conversation the other night....

I would totally trust him, our situation is different than most EMA's.(totally no judgement here, ok) We were a couple 15 yrs ago and got seperated not by choice, were totally in love with one another and went our seperate ways...now fast forward 12 years , he tried to contact me but at the time I couldn't handle talking to him because I knew were things would go...I had just had my 3rd child. So, I choose not too. Fast forward 3 more yrs and i called him..... this is the present. Our EMA feels like it shoudl be, and we are not doing anything wrong...we were supposed to be together.... now it's a matter of working out everything so we can.

ANyway, i would trust him and I know he would trust me.

Wishing~

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