Wow! That was quick!

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Registered: 01-26-2004
Wow! That was quick!
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Tue, 01-27-2004 - 5:13pm
Well, earlier today I was looking over hotels in the area where I was supposed to be meeting up with my MM. His last words to me around lunch was, "I'll call you back when I get on the road, around 4." Didn't hear anything so a little bit ago, I called him. He picked up announcing his name - not how he usually does when I call. I asked if he was on the road yet. He said yes - with his whole family! I about choked. I couldn't even say anything and he starts asking me all the business questions, if I got such and such done, check with so & so and make sure they've gotten something or another handled. He said he'll call me tomorrow with for status report. I told him to just call me at the office since I apparrently have no reason to go to (out of town where we were supposed to meet up). He said he had no control over that and of course I said fine and just hung up the phone. I know it sounds really stupid, and I'm sure he didn't have a lot to do with it, but this emotional rollercoaster is giving me e-motion sickness. Maybe he is really is ready to start something as he's stated many times, but circumstance just keep it from coming through. If it's going to be this much headache with him - I don't want it.
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Registered: 01-26-2004
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 6:40pm
Yikes...I'm sorry...if you want my honest thoughts..(at least what I have found) be prepared for an emotional rollercoaster! I have found over the past 7 months - I am either walking on sunshine or an emotional wreck! Once, I too called my MM and he was in the car with his family! Now..in this day and age - why don't they just look at the caller ID and not answer the phone!!!
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Registered: 01-26-2004
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 8:09pm
He called back & I asked him the same thing. Why did he even answer it? He said he was afraid it would be the last time today he would have a chance to hear my voice. I didn't think I would hear from him again today but he said he wanted to make sure I wasn't angry. He said he could tell I was upset and it just made him sick that he was with her instead of me. Said he couldn't even stand to hear her talking. How can he say something that can be so bull and still sound so good to hear?

UURGH!

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Registered: 01-24-2004
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 10:04pm
I am in the same boat as you are as regards to the emotional roller-coaster ride! One minute it feels like there is this unique connection there and then the next minute you are questioning if he is sincere!