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| Wed, 05-05-2004 - 8:15pm |
xxx trouble,
Hi, I saw your reply to the post "LOL! More News", which btw congrats on the grandchild and you new found knowledge for your D nomo.
Anyway, you asked for specific answers about your situation which happens to be almost exact to mine. I already had my D final (I divorced my H because of the M NOT my (X?)MM)2wks ago, but I am on the backburner because MM is intending to leave his W. I will say that I am learning to go about my business and heal after my D and to help my children heal, so I have a lot to keep me busy and I try to STAY busy so I don't obsess. I did tell my MM that the only way we are to ever be a couple again is to see proof and that proof is a signed divorce decree with BOTH signatures.
That said, if you go to the "Ending An Affair Support" (not that yours is or anything, I go back and forth between boards which has given me tremendous strength from all the posters), in the General Discussions section WHICH you will have to "click" towards the bottom where it says "more", you will find a post called "Question for NRE". It had only 2 replies BUT the second reply I think you should definitely read. The post was directed at one of the men on the board and the 2nd reply was from him and I think most of your answers will be found there. I have printed it out and it has given me in the last 2 days so much strength which I have needed so very badly. This is what a man "thinks" and goes through, at least this man did, and I choose to believe more men think the same. Good Luck and let me know what you think.
MidnightBlue

Just trying to keep this post upfront so it could be beneical to anyone who reads it.
MidnightBlue
thanks