Yet another confused OW

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2003
Yet another confused OW
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Mon, 12-15-2003 - 4:58pm
I'm new here,so hello to everyone.I started chatting with a MM online a year and a half ago,we clicked instantly.We were honest about alot of things from the start,I told him I am unhappily married and he says the same.In the time since we've met we've grown very close.I know that I am very much in love with him,and he says he loves me too.We even talk about a future together.Even though I feel guilt about the relationship,I also do not believe it's fair to stay in an unhappy marriage one's whole life.We've never met in person as he lives 8 hrs away.Even though I do beleive he loves me and wants to be with me,sometimes i doubt that he will ever leave his wife.He uses words like "SOMEDAY" and that frustrates me.I know it is not easy to just walk away from a life of committments but,i feel that i deserve an honest and reasonable answer about our future.Does anyone feel the same?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2003
Mon, 12-15-2003 - 5:23pm
Welcome. You have come to the right place to discuss your A. I suggest that you spend some time together before you think about the future with him. It may not be that great in person.