You/AP have actually said "I love you" ?

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Registered: 08-19-2010
You/AP have actually said "I love you" ?
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Mon, 08-23-2010 - 3:28pm

Although my A is new, I was just curious about something based on the other A I had years ago and the direction it ended up going and the hurt that was involved on all parties in the end...


Have you or AP actually said those words to each other? Clearly, given there is an H or W at home? Im sure it's just a feeling and it happens to be there and then maybe it just comes out but I picture someone saying it too soon and what an awkard situation that would be!


And do men (maybe I am stero typing here) actually repeat that back to their AP and allow themselves to go that far? That's probably a silly question but I think back to years ago and there is no doubt that I loved xAP. Everything he stood for, the way he made me feel, the friend he was, etc.. but after about 9 months, I wouldn't DARE say that to him. He would say little things like "Aww, great smile in your picture, you love me dont you?" And drop other little things like that but I never bought into it, never said it - TOTAL FEAR OF REJECTION!! Afterall, we both were MW/MM. I guess Im just kind of curious how it gets to that point, how did it happen (who said it first), when did you absolutely know

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Registered: 01-31-2010
Mon, 08-30-2010 - 3:30pm
We say I love you several times a day and mean it.

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