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| Fri, 08-27-2010 - 4:45pm |
I'm interested in your opinions... had lunch with MM today, Harley didn't work out so we went in his truck. He is off for the next week on vacation, so it was a sort of good bye lunch. It was nice to spend time together before he left. When we were parting I mentioned something about not being able to email/see/talk to him for a week. He made a comment that I am trying to understand. He said that we need to be careful about the emails. He told me at work it is fine, but at home he doesn't always know who is around when the email comes in and that he didn't want to have to explain why he was getting emails from me. This was the first time we discussed boundaries. That keeping our contact to M-F. I am fine with as I am a MW and don't want to answer questions either. Does this mean that he is acknowledging that we are having an affair? That we are doing something that we shouldn't be doing, crossing some line? I interpreted it to mean that, but I am not objective because this is what I want with him. Things seem to be moving along, slowly but surely. I hugged him good bye and gave him a peck on the cheek today-second hug this week for us. Just curious if this is wishful thinking or he is finally coming around...

Realize that he is a MM and by the same token that he will establish boundaries such as this one. And yes I believe this is a sign that he is well aware he is about to "cross the line" as far as what a married man should not be doing. The problem with some men is that they do not express their feelings and leave us guessing about how or what they might be feeling.
Hi Jersey,
I have been following your story for some time now and each time I have read a post about your situation something just doesn't sit right with me.