Your thoughts needed... re: JEALOUSY
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Your thoughts needed... re: JEALOUSY
| Wed, 12-10-2003 - 8:23am |
jealousy. from either the man or woman who are involved in something like this together? MM gets jealous and upset if he hears about something that happens to me when I'm out at the bar, and the same thing goes for me... I get upset when I hear about him going out and getting hit on , or even when he's out with his group of friends, some which happen to be female coworkers.
why is it that we seem to forget about each other's spouses in this whole thing? why are we more jealous of someone from the bar and we don't get upset at the fact that every night, we go to bed with our own spouses?
Your input/thoughts appreciated!!!
p.s. good morning!!! :) it's Hump Day!!
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Edited 3/10/2004 4:58 pm ET ET by geek_chic
The reason we get a little jealous is because maybe in the back of our minds we know that maybe one of us will meet someone else and be attracted to them. I mean, it happened with
us with our spouses.
well, that kinda makes sense to me, which makes me believe that even if we were to leave our spouses for each other (which we are not planning on doing anyway) it would never work out. and that would be one of the main reasons... if we left our spouses for each other, who's to say the same thing wouldn't happen to me and him? I love him so much, and he's all I think about and all I want, but the cold hard truth is, we've made those same vows/promises to our respective spouses and look what happened.
I don't need to be jealous of anything, because I know that he feels the same way about me than I do for him. and he enforced that this morning by telling me that he "loves me more than I'll ever know".
whew, they don't call this a rollercoaster ride for nothing! lol
Complicated
when is it all enough? i get jealous also but OM and i don't talk about anyone else. Crazy stuff.
I will take whatever my darling is able to give. I keep my jealousy to myself, mostly.
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