3 Weeks-Still nothing :(

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Registered: 05-04-2007
3 Weeks-Still nothing :(
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Mon, 09-08-2008 - 9:03am

3 weeks; 3 weekends and nothing! Well except for the 2 hugs that I had to basically beg for yesterday; but other than that no kisses; no cuddling; no affection, no sex.


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Registered: 11-07-2007
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 9:41am

<< Even last week after I couldn’t control my frustration and finally argued about the situation his response was that he’s a-sexual. I told him obviously and that I would have to join a support group or something cause I couldn’t take it and he said; join one… >>


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Registered: 11-29-2007
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 10:27am

His comment about joining a support group sounds more like a flippant way of ending the conversation.

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 10:41am

Yea, the a-sexual comment was definitely said with sarcasm and a way to end the conversation and make me roll over and halt any efforts and it worked because I lose any and all desire at that point.

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Mon, 09-08-2008 - 11:00am

Please read the first post in the thread titled "My Top Ten Ways To Identify a LL" in the articles and resources section.


If you are determined to give this relationship another try despite the sexual mismatch, please set a firm deadline in your mind.

When you see it coming, duck!

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Registered: 11-29-2007
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 11:08am

Believe me, I understand your strong desire to make the relationship work.

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 11:12am

You know i never really looked into the fact about calling me at work to discuss it; yet he won't discuss it at home.

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Registered: 11-29-2007
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 11:26am
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Registered: 05-04-2006
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 11:40am
>>Maybe it's some kind of safety mechanism for him....a little "anonymity" over the phone perhaps?
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Registered: 11-29-2007
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 12:54pm

ML is one of the only things I basically refuse to discuss while I'm at work.


As for the walking, I'm with you....we recently moved into a small neighborhood that is fantastic for evening walks.

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Registered: 01-04-2006
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 6:41pm

"But I don't want to leave him; I want to work at all of this.

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