4th of July = 4 Months of No Sex !

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4th of July = 4 Months of No Sex !
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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 10:02am
Feel for you.

When you see it coming, duck!

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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 10:52am

Is the side business a hobby or a financial necessity? Is it something that gives her a lot of self esteem? Is it possible that the business is a healthy, independent endeavor rather than a pathological distraction?


Being resentful of something that makes her feel accomplished and attractive probably isn't very attractive behavior on your part. I think it is a great idea for you to find independent activities that make you feel accomplished and attractive.


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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 10:02pm

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Wed, 07-02-2008 - 10:23am

>>>>> I need to mention that I have

When you see it coming, duck!

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Wed, 07-02-2008 - 1:44pm

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Wed, 07-02-2008 - 2:03pm

>>>>> Many,..many times, I feel like I'm just a big pay check to her, a nanny, house keeper, etc........Do I think of D?

When you see it coming, duck!

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Wed, 07-02-2008 - 6:43pm
I am sure you have tried most everything you can think of...and sounds like you are basically in hell....now I will not pretend to know or understand how you feel, as thankfully our relationship has not deteriorated to this point....however, her response that you stated, seemed to be very defensive...usually this comes when someone feels cornered, or they feel that blame is being placed on them...your story seems to paint a picture of her being the one at fault for everything, and you are the loveing father, husband, and provider.
cl-sandif2008
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Wed, 07-02-2008 - 9:27pm

Have you considered that your W knows that you "friends" on the side and is not willing to risk her health while you are having an Affair?

stunned08

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Wed, 07-02-2008 - 10:38pm

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Wed, 07-02-2008 - 11:55pm

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