Age difference??

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Registered: 02-22-2009
Age difference??
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Sun, 02-22-2009 - 6:57pm

I'm 34 and dating a 47 year old man. The problem is that he is happy with sex once a week while I want it 4 or 5 times a week. We have only been dating 4 months but I see this as a huge problem. Is this common when there is an age difference? He likes to kiss and cuddle but that is just not enough for me. I'm starting to feel resentful and I don't want this to ruin our relationship!

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Registered: 02-03-2009
In reply to: lolaloo
Sun, 02-22-2009 - 8:26pm
..you should check out the May/December board...there are plenty of combination's of couples with age differences...everything from the younger woman not wanting sex but every other month or so to the older man wanting sex every day and all combination's in between...I post there sometimes...my husband is 19 years older than me...I am 43...
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Registered: 05-04-2007
In reply to: lolaloo
Tue, 02-24-2009 - 2:51pm

It's ALREADY ruining it, & it's only been 4 months. It's not likely he'll want more once you settle in, but likely less.

I'm 32, living with a 46 & we do it about once a week. But it's good quality sex, so I don't push for more. I enjoy looking forward to the weekend, anticipating what might happen.

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 08-25-2008
In reply to: lolaloo
Tue, 02-24-2009 - 5:12pm

I don't know how common it is but it's not uncommon.

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Registered: 12-15-2003
In reply to: lolaloo
Tue, 02-24-2009 - 7:13pm
hi! im new here and decided to check this board out.
~k
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Registered: 12-06-2007
In reply to: lolaloo
Thu, 02-26-2009 - 12:20pm

I'm 34 and dating a 47 year old man. The problem is that he is happy with sex once a week while I want it 4 or 5 times a week. We have only been dating 4 months but I see this as a huge problem. Is this common when there is an age difference? He likes to kiss and cuddle but that is just not enough for me. I'm starting to feel resentful and I don't want this to ruin our relationship!


I'm 47 and my wife is 44. She wants