Is this amount a low sex drive???
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|Thu, 08-14-2008 - 11:40am|
Okay, I am new to this board and wondering if what I am frusterated with is that I have a high sex drive and if my partner has a low sex drive. I am in my 30's and my bf is in his later 20's. Everyone always assumes that men in their 20's are SO into sex- but I have found things in my dating life to be differently.
To me, I would love to have sex several times a week- and a few times on the weekends- especially since there are no major commitments such as children around. My bf and I have been together for 5 months. The beginning, of course, it always seems like they WANT you everytime you are together.
After about three months of having sex- it seems like he only wants sex once on the weekends- and maybe if I am lucky once during the week. He's affectionate towards me- but I have found out that he doesn't masterbate very often- it sounds like maybe once or twice a month- he says "because he has me" he doesn't need to. Well, we don't live together or see each other every day- I masterbate whether I see him or not. (In fact having sex with him makes we want to MORE!) He has no interest in having sex in the morning- even on the weekends- I was suprised by this- as most men seem to like it in the morning that I've met in the past.
He recently has taken up biking- training for a 100 mile race- he bikes 1-2 hours a day, 4-5 hours once a weekend. I enjoy working out too- and I support doing races- but I wonder if its taking away from his sex drive.
I am TRULY frusterated as I almost feel that even on the one night on the weekend I am pushing for sex- and wonder if he would be fine without any. Is this a low sex drive? Is mine so high since I want it 3-4 times a week?