Another strange tale

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Registered: 10-31-2005
Another strange tale
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Mon, 06-20-2011 - 1:44pm

The background...

So I am out on my bike yesterday, about 20 miles into the ride when suddenly out of nowhere, I get this strange feeling in my nether regions and before you know it, I am having an orgasm...spontaneous, dry, but neverthless, no doubt about what it was. Most interesting, but frankly a bit of a cause for concern. I'm thinking it means I am rubbing something I shouldn't during a ride that could cause me problems in the long term. So when I get home, I do some googling to find out whether this is common or not (for the curious, it's not common, but not unheard of either...and it DOES mean I should think about a different saddle).

The point...

So my dear LL W asks me what I am doing. I told her that I had a very strange experience, then indicated the nature of same. To be honest, I hesitated to tell because I feared merciless ribbing on every future outing (heck, that's what I would probably do if the situation were reversed). What happened caught me by complete surprise. She went very quiet and did not speak to me the rest of the evening. The next morning I asked her why she was mad at me. She went into some diatribe as to how I had perverted the innocence of biking somehow. I reminded her that it was an involuntary physical response to some unknown stimulus. She then said something about how she couldn't ask me anymore how my bike rides went.

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Wed, 06-22-2011 - 10:46am

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Wed, 06-22-2011 - 10:53am

Wait a minute...if you really ARE holdingontoit, WHERE's the analogy??!

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Registered: 09-16-2004
Wed, 06-22-2011 - 12:09pm

I guess the thing is that she is perhaps the most naive and innocent person I have ever met. She has a world view of rainbows and unicorns. Why spoil that for no reason?

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Wed, 06-22-2011 - 4:47pm

"That's an awfully noble sentiment but I think a pretty damn good reason to spoil her naivete is to save your marriage."

I agree with your sentiment, but I don't think that is the key to the marriage...not anymore anyway. I SHOULD have done it many years ago but at that time we were focussed on raising the kids and it was easy to back-burner it. Truth be told, I think there is an infinitessimally small chance of success with such a confrontation, so all that would likely remain is the same marriage (whichever way it may go) and I'd probably feel like I shot a passenger pigeon or dodo bird.

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Thu, 06-23-2011 - 6:24pm
As long as you are aware and comfortable that you are making the choice to allow her to live in her fantasy world, and you merely want us to commiserate with your plight given how uncomfortable she is with anything sexual in nature, well, yes, we feel for you. And many of us know first hand what it is like to live with someone who wishes sex either didn't exist or kept itself to some far corner of life, packed away neatly in a box only to be opened on birthdays and annivesaries. And for some, not even then.

When you see it coming, duck!

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