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|Sun, 05-17-2009 - 10:03am|
I have lurked around here for a few months and posted once, thanks to all for posting their stories and advice.
I am the HL and he is LL. It took a year of discussion and months of therapy for him to realize he had to compromise too to keep us together. As others have said on here, I was saying I was unhappy but he never felt any ill effects from it so he had no motivation to make any extra effort or compromise. This has changed, which I am very thankful for.
My question is I like my sexuality and being a sexual person. I don't want to stuff it down to not be frustrated. I want to enjoy it as it is part of my personality. Does anyone else here understand that? I am not sure how to re-channel it, or if that is even possible. Any thoughts would be appreciated.