frustrated

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Registered: 06-10-2008
frustrated
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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 12:31am
My fiance and I have been together for over 2 yrs. For the first year and a half we had sex all of the time. We moved in together about 8 months ago. since then our sex has gone down to 1-2 times per week. i am completely frustrated because I would like to have it at least 4 times. When I talked to him about it he said he is completely happy with our relationship and doesn't feel like sex needs to be such a big deal. he says he is still in love and sexually attracted to me, but he never seems to really desire me anymore. I am not sure if this is normal or I am overreacting. any advice??
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Registered: 01-04-2006
In reply to: ha84
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 8:06am

"I am not sure if this is normal or I am overreacting. any advice?? "


Studies say normal is once or twice a week for a married couple.

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Registered: 02-02-2004
In reply to: ha84
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 10:12am

>>>>> For the first year and a half we had sex all of the time. We moved in together about 8 months ago. since then our sex has gone down to 1-2 times per week. <<<<<


This is very normal.

When you see it coming, duck!

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Registered: 09-16-2004
In reply to: ha84
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 12:21pm

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Are you initiating and he's turning it down (note that I said "it" rather than "you")? Or is he just not initiating as much? What exactly are your expectations from him?

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Registered: 05-24-2007
In reply to: ha84
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 12:28am