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|Fri, 06-06-2008 - 2:43pm|
I have finally just thrown in the towel. I've given up completely.
A little history. I'm the HL. I would like sex once a week. But I would like some physical attention. Hug, Kiss, a cuddle in bed. Nothing. My wife says if I want to do that I just should but why does she have to do it back?! She seems to think that is what "married" people do. Nothing. She says things like, "That's what married people do. We've been married 20 years and you want to act like we are dating."
Not any more. I'm tired of trying. I'm tired of always being the one to initiate everything. From a kiss to full blown sex. Sex all 10 minutes of it once a month! I won't miss that because there is not much to miss! I'm just not going to do any of it any more. No more flowers just because, no more notes saying I love you. Nothing ,I'm done. I'm going to act married from now on.
It's actually kind of liberating. I would try so hard to be loving and romantic and when I got nothing in return I felt terrible. Now I don't feel so bad. Feels like I've stopped bagging my head against the wall for so long not having the pain feels good!
Anyone else just given up?