Had to let her go

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Registered: 12-05-2006
Had to let her go
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Mon, 03-19-2012 - 5:27pm

I'm the only guy she's been with in regards to

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Registered: 05-04-2006
Wed, 03-28-2012 - 2:32pm
oh, I am firmly in Deedle's camp on this one. I just know that's not what you want to do, so I'm not going to shove you in that direction. You'll hop on one of these opportunities when you are ready.
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Registered: 09-21-2011
Wed, 03-28-2012 - 3:16pm

Oh

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Thu, 03-29-2012 - 9:50am
Well, I for one am offended by Glenn's refusal. How can I live vicariously through him if he isn't up for FWB with either of them? Bad enough to get turned down 3 times within 12 hours at home. But then Glenn refuses to follow up on his old flame's offer? Intolerable! ;-)

When you see it coming, duck!

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Registered: 09-21-2011
Thu, 03-29-2012 - 10:27am

I'm offended as well. He is attempting to completely the destroy the fact that men will recklessly have sex with any woman who offers. How dare he!!!!!

Not to mention what he is doing to the fragile egos of these women attempting to have sex with him, that is just not nice

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Thu, 03-29-2012 - 12:10pm

I've always felt this with the characterisation of HLs as insatiable and indiscriminating.

I'm extremely selective about who, how and when I'll have sex.

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Registered: 12-05-2006
Thu, 03-29-2012 - 12:22pm

I assume those two spoke in jest but you do bring up a good point.

The reason some HL's hold sex as important as they do is because it is more than two bodies rubbing together in just the right way/place. The idea of being adequate enough to meet my partner's entire

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Registered: 09-21-2011
Thu, 03-29-2012 - 12:35pm

Completely said in jest Glenn, and I am glad you take it as such. I would not want to be in the situation that you fnd yourself. If some of us can make you laugh a little on here, then that's good.

One thing I never understood until I met my SO was how a man can express love for a woman through physically proviging her wilth pleasure. It wasn't something I expereinced with my ex. It is experssing something special in a unique way that is shared between two people. I've learned a lot from both him, and the men on this board.

Now, back to the bad jokes...

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Thu, 03-29-2012 - 1:35pm
Yes, said in jest. I think. After 3 pre-rejections in 12 hours, then wife blasts me for making her feel guilty for being awake at the wrong hour (I did not apologize), then wife comes back a few minutes later looking for me to peck her on the cheek to indicate all is well with us - well, I am surprised I had enough sense of humor left to post anything in jest.

When you see it coming, duck!

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Registered: 12-05-2006
Thu, 03-29-2012 - 2:25pm

Well I'm impressed, even if no one else is.

Okay, she's bleeding which is a very good thing. Next, she says that her sexual desire for anything/anyone is non existent in the wake of our separation. She was an idiot, safe to lust after other guys only because

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Thu, 03-29-2012 - 6:31pm
I am very impressed with how you handled that. Well done sir.

When you see it coming, duck!

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