I'm the only guy she's been with in regards to
Thanks but I've had a week and a half to formulate that response,
Wow, what a mentor for a young person!
I agree but it is very encouraging to hear it from an outside source.
I discussed this with her the last night we were together and we agreed that in exchange for what I had given to her, she had provided comfort during my time of loss and adjustment from a 23 year marriage to being single again. We strove to keep equity in the relationship throughout and I can't praise highly enough the value that it brought to our time together, even into our parting.
I think Hold meant that he was pre-rejected, which means that he didn't get a chance to even initiate because she headed him off by saying something like "I'm tired" or "My head hurts" etc.
Yea, I saw this spring fever thing coming up every year, if not at times in between and sooooo could not live like that.
Better that I get free of it and she discover what she values in regards to romance and sex. It just kills me that I can't even ask how her day/night went because she knows I'm not ready to hear about her experiences with other guys. Basically were down to how did you sleep and how about the weather?
When you see it coming, duck!
I tossed that out the night of the break up but in all honesty, I would eventually like to return to the type of friendship we had before becoming romantically involved if at all possible. Still, maybe no contact would get us there better and/or sooner. We agreed that we are still both good people which may sound
Thanks but now this is bothering me.
I too have returned to my faith-based roots in this time of need. I hate that we're even alike in the way we are dealing with this loss. Makes me want her all the more.
I just hope she's not reading any of this.