He makes the excuses
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|Tue, 05-05-2009 - 12:32am|
So the issue is with me and my fiance. Don’t get me wrong, I love him with all my heart. I will marry him one day.
But he never wants sex. He always has some sort of excuse. It’s usually he is just to tired and/or sore from working. I look forward to his days off in hopes that something might happen. But nothing does. He doesn’t even like to snuggle when we sleep. He says it makes him to warm. I suggest a thinner blanket and he makes more excuses. Whenever we do have sex I initiate it. We have discussed our issues again and again and again, but nothing ever improves. He says it’s because of his age. He is only 31! I am 20.
I always feel it is my fault. I am overweight and never considered myself attractive. He keeps telling me that it is not because of me and that he finds me attractive.
He always gets angry at everything. Never at me but he always snaps at me and always talks in a negative tone to me. I feel pathetic when I begin to cry. He’s begin to ignore when I cry now, it happens too often. I am just frustrated!!! I feel like he is distant from me and I hate it when I doubt that he loves me. Because I love him so much and I know he loves me.
It’s hard to write this. I am having a hard time organizing my thoughts. I just want a solution. And I’m not just looking at ways to make him want more sex, I am willing to look at ways of making me want it less. Anything to make the feeling of rejection and frustration go away.