~The Future Mrs. T~
I don't agree with you. Just the sex is hard enough to deal with.I've lived with the love of my life for twenty years. I fell in love with her at first sight so much that I told the woman I was dating at the time I couldn't see her anymore because I just met the woman I was going to marry and I didn't even know her first name. Sex has always been an issue with us and has almost drove us apart. So, if you think you can deal with "Just the sex" think again.
Second, take a clue from the other women that came before you. The ones that got out! I would not be investing a lot of emotional capital in this guy right now until he can get his act together. When he can start communicating like a grown man, perhaps then you can get more serious. I would back off. He needs to get his own house in order and you can't help him do that. I don't know how old you are but if you young sounds like there are way too many problems here