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|Mon, 08-10-2009 - 5:54am|
It's very tough for me to come on here and just open up about my sex life. I don't really talk with ANYONE about it, not even my closest girlfriend. It's just not my thing. Not to mention, I'm the only one married, most of my friends aren't even in a serious relationship.
I've always had a high libido. And one thing that made my relationship with my partner so great was it seemed he did too. Shortly after we were married I became pregnant, yeah, for the first trimester and about 2 weeks into the second I wasn't really up for any sex. But then I went back to normal and as I progressed farther into my pregnancy the hormones made me even, oh, crazier! I never knew it could get that high! And it hasn't gone down even after having the baby 4 months ago. But once we were married it was almost as if his libido bascially fell off the planet. He is a US Marine and I understand the job is stressful. I even talked to him last week, asking him if it was me (I could understand if my body isn't the greatest post-pregnancy), if it was something else going on, or just stress. He said it was stress. He also said he doesn't place that much value on sex...I can't remeber his exact words, but basically he was saying he didn't need it very often