Help, thought I'd found a solution

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Registered: 07-06-2011
Help, thought I'd found a solution
Wed, 07-06-2011 - 4:12pm
Hi, I'm new to this so bear with me, I need help my other half has ll and me well mines very high, as I'm sure Many of you understand when you are practically begging for sex it does nothing for your self esteem, and makes you feel down right crap! Especially when everything else is perfect he is kind caring supportive I could not ask for better exept for ll. My solution was there was a guy at work that like me was very flirty and out going nothing other than fun comments and inuendos, like working In a carry on film!! It just made
me feel attractive and desirable again with no one getting hurt or upset as this guy is Happly married
however things seem to have changed there seems
to be more behind the comments now and I'm not sure what do to as this guy is my boss!! I know i should not engage in anymore comments ect and try to calm it down but I could be miss reading it and don't want to cause tenson by saying Anything about it going to far. All I wanted was to feel pretty again without resulting in anything more than harmless fun. It's been months since I last had sex with my other half and I just need some advise. Thanks for taking the time to read.
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Registered: 02-03-2009
Fri, 07-08-2011 - 6:57am

...have you thought about discussing an open marriage?...have you thought about leaving the marriage?...can you feel sexually satisfied if your husband participates in your sexual release even if he is not able to have intercourse each time?...will you enjoy compliments that you have to ask for?..

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Registered: 04-27-2010
Sat, 07-09-2011 - 7:23pm

When feelings get involved --and it's likely they will, especially on your side because that's how women are "wired"--it won't be "harmless" any more...