Holding a Grudge
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Holding a Grudge
| Tue, 09-02-2008 - 10:21am |
I am, and I don't know how to stop it.
The past 2 months, things are better than at other times in our marriage.
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<< Enraged that my youth is gone.
I think these must all be normal feelings....the fact that you recognize them in yourself has got to be a good sign.
The sad thing is... if we were on the outside looking in, and we were advising OTHER people to do something about these "symptoms" of depression, declining health, etc., caused by anything OTHER than ML... we'd be telling them to get out of whatever sitaution was making them "sick" in the first place...
>>The sad thing is... if we were on the outside looking in, and we were advising OTHER people to do something about these "symptoms" of depression, declining health, etc., caused by anything OTHER than ML... we'd be telling them to get out of whatever sitaution was making them "sick" in the first place... <<
There is a post elsewhere on the board that criticizes us for doing exactly THAT.
I think the choice whether to do marriage counselling or personal counselling (or both) depends on how far gone the relationship is.
When you see it coming, duck!
I think we do both.
When you see it coming, duck!
<< We DO tell people to 'get out' with frightening regularity.
It does happen both ways...
>>Does that mean "shame on me"?<<
No, it doesn't mean 'shame on you' what it means is that there may be a pattern at work in the way you are choosing your men.
>>>>> It feels like the universe has played the same joke on me twice.
When you see it coming, duck!
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