Husband will go; but I have to ask

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Registered: 04-14-2008
Husband will go; but I have to ask
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Wed, 09-03-2008 - 11:00am
I am pretty much a HL gal, (except when i don't get my sleep ugh! that's another story) and DH will usually get into it if I start things off but it seems as though he never wants to initiate sex. We've talked about it without any resolution. Am I just nit-picking (because i usually get what what I want/need whenever i ask) or am i right to expect him to seize the moment?
Karin W
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Registered: 11-29-2007
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 12:57pm

Your situation is pretty common around here, with the exception that at least you typically get what you ask for, that puts you in a better situation than most!


In answer to your question though, I dont think your nit-picking at all!

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Registered: 09-30-2007
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 5:25am

I agree with your wants and desires. I would love to have Mrs. Italy just cuddle me in bed. She never has in 20 years. I always have to cuddle her, she has never come to my side of the bed. Do I get what I want? In a way, Yes. Would I like it better if she did it YES. But she never does. So. having the expectation and then having that expectation not come true hurts a lot more.

 
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Registered: 11-07-2007
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 9:32am

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Registered: 09-30-2007
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 2:32pm

I couldn't agree more with you. In the past,It took all my strength not to totally explode when she would say things like that. If I can think to bring home flowers for NO REASON. If I can hug, you, kiss you, always say you look nice, hold your hand, tell you not to worry. You can honestly look me in the eye and tell me you don't think

 
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Registered: 04-02-2003
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 6:39pm
WOOT, Italybiker!
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Registered: 11-29-2007
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 11:10am
Keep us in the loop buddy...lately your success is the only "light at the end of the tunnel" that doesn't turn out to be a train !
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Registered: 07-26-2006
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 12:00am
Congrats! Glad to hear it's still going well.