I am so glad I'm not alone

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2009
I am so glad I'm not alone
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Fri, 04-17-2009 - 11:54am
I am so glad I am not alone on this topic! I am 33,divorced,and have been with my bf for 1 1/2 yrs. During my marriage, I never wanted sex. But I turned 30 and BAM I want it all the time. I am extremely turned on by my bf and want him all the time. But he doesn't. He has no problem "getting started" but usually loses interest. He does make sure I am satisfied most of the time. But he never "finishes". It makes me feel like there is something wrong with me. Also, he watches porn and recently I caught him looking at 18-25 yr old girls on myspace. He is 34. All these girls headings were sexual in content. I just don't get it. I hope we all keep talking about this and can offer each other advice/support. Thank you all for your time.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2004
Fri, 04-17-2009 - 3:35pm
Are you on birth control? Maybe he just doesn't want to get you pregnant?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2009
Mon, 04-20-2009 - 6:48pm
My tubes are tied!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-28-2009
Tue, 04-28-2009 - 2:44am
I feel the same way... why does my boyfriend need to turn me on so badly? I never felt the same around any other guys before. It's driving me nuts!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2008
Tue, 04-28-2009 - 5:35am
i have same thing.
i always liked sex but with my guy im mad~nuts~crazy... about it
always bugging him for it.
my bf doesnt finish much either. he is alot older and think he is too busy keepin me happy, always makes me satisfied and i just want more...feel such a freak cos he seems less interested than i am.
im 35, he is 52.
look good for my age...slim etc, and feel really unwanted sometimes by this!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2009
Fri, 05-01-2009 - 10:10pm
I am so happy to hear from all of you. So my bf's new thing is to have sex on the couch. He is behind me spooning me. But
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2008
Mon, 05-04-2009 - 1:59pm
Glad to see that I'm not alone either, but odd to see women having that problem with their men.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2009
Mon, 05-04-2009 - 7:11pm

What is up with these men? I found more searches for porn on the computer today. I just don't get it....I was thinking the other day that I don't even remember the last time HE had an orgasm!! Is that strange or what????